tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5226506400762782826.post4106791287127824361..comments2023-10-24T11:30:47.750+01:00Comments on A Head Full of Beauty: Love. Sick.Opheliahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06804728080052960584noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5226506400762782826.post-14259843823274261002014-08-12T23:43:15.814+01:002014-08-12T23:43:15.814+01:00Hi there Ophelia, I've never commented before,...Hi there Ophelia, I've never commented before, but I've been reading your blog since the beginning and acutely missed it for the last year or so. I've been in similar situations to yours in recent years and it's just not worth the drama. You're a fantastic and strong individual, even if you don't feel that way in your deepest thoughts. Finding kindness for yourself is probably the only way to enter into a healthy relationship with someone else and stick with them, I know how hard it is to accept oneself though. I struggle and fail every day. Actively engaging in your ED while you're in such a headspace probably feels like the only constant, I know it feels that way for me. Just know that you're a worthwhile individual, even if it's hard to grasp. You wouldn't pursue your visions of achievement if you didn't value yourself, so find someone who complements you and supports you in the right ways. You deserve no less than someone on a similar level to you, who can understand and care for you without taking away from who you are. Excuse my rambling, but I hate to see how you've struggled and struggled and finally succeeded in your life and you deserve happiness. I'm not quite where I want to be yet, but I hope to make it there one day. Icynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5226506400762782826.post-61988982811906999522014-07-21T13:38:54.044+01:002014-07-21T13:38:54.044+01:00I feel like crying after reading this post. I don&...I feel like crying after reading this post. I don't know you and have never posted on a blog before but I felt an overwhelming need to read out and say something. I know what it's like to feel like a ship sailing in a rocky fucking sea waiting for someone stable to anchor yourself to. I have been in the "wrong" relationship for 4 years (I am no longer physically attracted to him) but in many ways it has prevented me from drifting from one bad choice to another. I hope you find happiness and self love soon. I haven't but I hope it comes with age. You sound like an intelligent girl who is adept at seeming like you have your shit together, I think that is our downfall. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5226506400762782826.post-59328456191433545852014-06-18T00:02:41.190+01:002014-06-18T00:02:41.190+01:00My comment didn't post yesterday!
I wanted to...My comment didn't post yesterday!<br /><br />I wanted to say that your last two lines as the bravest thing I've ever seen you write. Now go out and fucking do it. I know you can.désespérée de maigrirhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02317437591022451978noreply@blogger.com