tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5226506400762782826.post6673749864798677472..comments2023-10-24T11:30:47.750+01:00Comments on A Head Full of Beauty: This is the yearOpheliahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06804728080052960584noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5226506400762782826.post-4730118542454100252012-01-10T19:15:21.537+00:002012-01-10T19:15:21.537+00:00love this post! tumbling into theo's arms must...love this post! tumbling into theo's arms must have been a wonderful feeling. i can relate to you in every way possible about the self worth thing.<br />p.s. i just had to mention you in my newst blogpost...Zoiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15509810764245031340noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5226506400762782826.post-77219185243313434052012-01-04T07:14:33.326+00:002012-01-04T07:14:33.326+00:00One thing and the most important thing to remember...One thing and the most important thing to remember is. If you do not love yourself, you will never be able to feel truly loved by anyone. How can you expect anyone to love you if you do not love you?. I tell you this, because I wasted my twenties by self hating and driving away someone really important to me. But my craziness did not let me see or feel love by this boy. I thought I was the only one who loved so much that physically hurt me. My insecurities blinded me and I could have changed that if I only loved me. I was never good enough, never. I did't feel good enough. How crazy is that? I measure love by my exterior if I did not look good then he will love me less. He will find someone better. The insanity is that my self value depended on someone else. To give that power to anyone is so insane. No matter what size, your self worth should never change.30whatsnexthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15078284004370053174noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5226506400762782826.post-39729012538177729902012-01-02T21:35:49.201+00:002012-01-02T21:35:49.201+00:00My husband is also the clueless type, and it has t...My husband is also the clueless type, and it has taken me years not to associate that with uncaring... I know it's hard not to compare current relationships with previous ones, but that's really what you need to do! And just take it one day at a time. You're amazing, and he knows!Plum Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17346389870327339369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5226506400762782826.post-38785411600193007322012-01-01T19:08:48.992+00:002012-01-01T19:08:48.992+00:00I'm so proud of you. I can see you healing. ...I'm so proud of you. I can see you healing. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. I know you can do this.nonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01867572061411328793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5226506400762782826.post-8999007663731188452012-01-01T17:18:47.432+00:002012-01-01T17:18:47.432+00:00so glad you're doing okay, and so so happy you...so glad you're doing okay, and so so happy you are going back into treatment.<br />I know you don't believe me when I say this, but you are an amazing person, you're strong, a bloody fighter, compassionate, intelligent and beautiful. Not just in the superficial way, your a beautiful person, and your personality is accountable for that beauty. <br /><br />No matter how many times this monster rears its ugly head, i know you will beat it. Everyday is a victory, and this is a battle that you're always going to be in, but it gets so much easier to stay strong when you realise how much you are worth and how much in life their is to smile about.<br /><br />Keep that pretty head of yours high, and maybe let Theo in...he might just suprise you. xxnotapplicablehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13282729680045835133noreply@blogger.com