tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5226506400762782826.post8511077716719784008..comments2023-10-24T11:30:47.750+01:00Comments on A Head Full of Beauty: The ClubOpheliahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06804728080052960584noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5226506400762782826.post-869505059930392392010-02-08T11:12:19.332+00:002010-02-08T11:12:19.332+00:00Sounds like quite a night! I don't know what t...Sounds like quite a night! I don't know what to say. I can't tell you what to do. I've never met these people so can't really make any judgements... But... <br /><br />You haven't ruined everything by going home with Hugh. It looks bad to the others, but like you said: it was just casual sex with a fit guy. But the fact that he boasted about it? He sounds like a loud mouthed jerk and to him... you could just be a game. <br /><br />Rowan? When you said he's a "self-professed slut" I immediately went off him. It just means that you'll be meaningless to him. And you don't want guys like that in your life. You won't matter a single bit. He'll walk all over you. <br /><br />But these guys are giving you their attention. They're flirting with you and competing for YOUR attention. And that will only increase your desire to be thinner, more beautiful. Outrageously stunning. And I know that's what you want. So really... this could be your recipe for success. <br /><br />But you can't let it go too deep with them. You can't let it become serious. Because... sooner or later... if something goes wrong. You can't go back to bingeing and purgeing and starving again. You have to stay strong. You'll be so thin and pretty. You can't let it go. Not because of them. You just have to grit your teeth and get through it. <br /><br />This could be the making of you. Or at least, the making of your beautiful body. But don't let it break you.<br /><br />Just be careful. <br /><br /><br />And D. <br /><br />D. D. D. D. D!<br /><br />I know he's giving out mixed signals... but I think it's just because he's shy. The way that he smiles at you PROVES that he likes you - whether it's just a friends thing or not. I think you should get closer to him. Even if it doesn't mean a full on relationship. I think you should talk to him, find out where he's at. If there's absolutely no hope. Move on. But if there is... hold out for him. I think he could be really good for you. He sounds so sweet and lovely. Nothing like the other two. He sounds like....<br /><br />...a bit like you. But without the wild side :p <br /><br />(yet)<br /><br />Sending you lots and lots of love <br />Holly x x xHollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12298899697286324280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5226506400762782826.post-33038541983852396762010-02-07T04:34:44.706+00:002010-02-07T04:34:44.706+00:00I bet D won't think badly of you. It may be is...I bet D won't think badly of you. It may be is that I am not you and therefore I don't 100% understand how much you like D... but you had Hugh (and Rowan)! They want you, not just 3 of them, but all the unmentioned ones as well... your years and years of effort - the sadness, the depression, loneliness - is paying off.. don't you think? Or can't you see it that way? <br /><br />Girls.. they always talk. I can't easily make friends with girls since I hate back-slaps.. and guys... they forget stuff easily. You might not be able to do anything for a while about all the talks, but soon or later, girls end up accepting the fact that you are superior than them; guys end up accepting that you are much more than a 'meat,' as you put it, the gorgeous one with the brains as well. <br /><br />You have everything - just remember that Ophelia. Wish you the best, always. xo.JKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01005399798740676797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5226506400762782826.post-14020826096269901342010-02-06T18:46:55.618+00:002010-02-06T18:46:55.618+00:00I agree, FUCK the double standard that makes a wom...I agree, FUCK the double standard that makes a woman feel as though she can't sleep with whoever she wants, whereas guys gauge their worth by the number of girls they've had. Who are all these guys sleeping with, then, if the women are supposed to be obedient little tarts?<br /><br />Because it has future complications I would agree and tell you to lay low for a while until it all blows over. It sucks you have to be part of something where 22 year old girls gossip like 12 year olds but alas, that is the nature of women. This is why I prefer the company of men. Let the bitches cackle. Eventually they'll find someone else to harp on. Pretty soon you'll be old news. And enjoy the fact that you exercised your free will and enjoyed a HOTT guy! I bet he was really cute! ;)<br /><br />peace<br /><br />EmilyEmilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07974700755166941532noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5226506400762782826.post-6368251674557358302010-02-06T18:45:44.968+00:002010-02-06T18:45:44.968+00:00I DO love you SO because your life because I reall...I DO love you SO because your life because I really feel we are very similar... I would have behaved the exact same way, and so I have no advice, only support and to say that I'm here for you.<br />I hope the air gets cleared sooner rather than later.Plum Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17346389870327339369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5226506400762782826.post-28249177100156443102010-02-06T14:35:33.805+00:002010-02-06T14:35:33.805+00:00That's a sticky situation. But just hang in th...That's a sticky situation. But just hang in there,things will get better. Don't let the rumors bother you.NabilaHazirahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02280819120854596017noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5226506400762782826.post-82269461855794216202010-02-06T14:13:09.264+00:002010-02-06T14:13:09.264+00:00Wow. That's quite a situation... It sucks that...Wow. That's quite a situation... It sucks that they used you to compete with each other, but at the same time, that has to tell you that you ARE pretty and desirable. There's no way they would've fought over an ugly, fat girl. But don't worry, darling, all those nasty rumors will fade away soon, and from the way you say D smiled at you, it doesn't sound as if he thinks badly of you at all.Ana's Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10588270419894145137noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5226506400762782826.post-53710181912987306312010-02-06T12:25:10.882+00:002010-02-06T12:25:10.882+00:00I think this whole association just sounds like ad...I think this whole association just sounds like adult high school. A bunch of bull shit. I'm sure it is important to make connections, but it makes me a little sick that this is an important place for law students.<br /><br />I mean, really. Shouldn't they all be studying? And not gossiping like a bunch of 13 year olds?<br /><br />And God DAMNIT do I hate guys and their double standards and the girls that promote that and call them sluts. I would lay low for awhile, if I were you. Something more interesting to them will come up. Sure, it may be bad for awhile and you'll feel shitty. Because you broke some stupid social arbitrary rule. Fast and get strong, look hot and thin, and focus on that. And date and sleep with people OUTSIDE the club, honestly.Liz Anatasiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17370703327313888167noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5226506400762782826.post-34132277299940325832010-02-06T11:05:23.457+00:002010-02-06T11:05:23.457+00:00where will this lead to? hugh rejecting you and th...where will this lead to? hugh rejecting you and that will turn him into your latest obsession? which leads to binging and starving just because once he sees you skinnier he will want you again and even more? i am sure you know your pattern. please think. do it for yourself, and just for yourself. cos ur better than thisAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5226506400762782826.post-71556062078462102312010-02-06T08:52:07.377+00:002010-02-06T08:52:07.377+00:00It is a fault of society, not of you, that people ...It is a fault of society, not of you, that people are like that. It is no woman's fault to be free, even if it sexual free, even if it may was a failure. After all it wouldn't have meant a thing if you were a men. #<br /><br />Of course I do understand that you feel sad about D. I could say that it would be the best thing to just talk to him straight about it. Not all for once... but bit by bit. But I also know that this is a hard thing to do... maybe impossible. One should always remember that the pain of haven't tried at all may be greater than the pain if you try and fail.Lisa K.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13211570171616078246noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5226506400762782826.post-60099751092856137212010-02-06T08:51:15.396+00:002010-02-06T08:51:15.396+00:00Oh gosh I know exactly how you feel... I have had ...Oh gosh I know exactly how you feel... I have had a similar thing happen to me last year... And the thing is, I would not have done anything differently even if I could. Hang in there, Ophelia. :)Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11008860337404060141noreply@blogger.com